Self Motivational Means Having a Good Self Image

Self Motivational people always have a good self image, its what makes them self motivational. When you ask yourself the question "Who am I?" what answers do you get. If that question is too broad or too deep try some of these. "What has made me the person I am today?". "What do I believe is the main reason I have been put on this Earth?" Stand in front of a mirror and ask yourself these questions. If the answer is still "I don't know" or if you do know and you don't like the answers then you need to think long and hard about your self image.
So to help you be more self motivational you need some new questions. Now try these; "What do I really want?", "Who do I really want to be?", "What do I really want to achieve with my life?" Remember you can never get the right answers if you don't ask good questions, and in this case some soul searching questions if you want to become more self motivational. If you don't like the answers you are getting begin to formulate the answers to these questions in the way you want to be not the way it is currently. Next you have to begin to tell yourself that you are the person that fits these answers to the questions you asked. The great adage here is "Fake it till you make it!" thats how many self motivational people got to having a good self image. What you are doing here is beginning to carry around in your head a new mental image of who you are. So the next time you stand and look in the mirror asking these questions you have a new self image that springs to mind.
If you are struggling to come up with the vision of a new self image here is list of self motivational books I compiled to give you some ideas.
Your self image is the result of all that has happened to you so far in your life and how you have reacted to those things. Some inputs are genetic sometimes labelled "your grandparents did it to you". Some inputs are indoctrination that is "your parents did it to you". Some inputs are through absorption that is "you let the people around you do it to you". You will never improve your self image and become self motivational until you take responsibility for who you are rather than what others have done to you. It is not what happens to you that is important, it is how you respond. Take responsibility for the rest of your life and watch your self image grow.
Still not sure who you want to be? Imagine yourself looking down on your own funeral, what do you want people to be saying about what you brought into their lives. Listen and hear what contribution you made to those around you and this alone will make you self motivational. If you are not sure what you can achieve ask yourself this question "if you had 100% guarantee that you could not fail what would you set out to achieve?" Ask yourself several times until you have a list of the goals you want to achieve and feel your self image begin to grow again feel even more self motivational. If you have any nagging doubts whether you can achieve these things remember "Fake it till you make it", and your sub conscious mind will go to work to make it a reality.